Dating Filipinas can be rather rewarding. Not only are the among the most beautiful women of the world, Filipino women are also very loving women. With that said, one needs to be very careful when dating Filipina online.
You can find a sexy Filipina that will love you. You can find your dream girl in the Philippines. You canalso find a lot of Filipinas that are out to relieve you of cash too. Most of the Filipinas I spoke to online were looking to do just that. However, I did meet a Filipina online and we have been living in the Philippines for nearly four years now. That is her in the picture on the right.
What I recommend you do is keep it light with your long distance contacts. Do not commit to one Filipina before you get here. Talk to many, make contacts and then visit the Philippines. Meet them all once you are here. Don’t mislead them, be open and honest.
Above all, do not send them money. You can ignore that if you wish but you’re very likely to be just as well off burning it. Keep it light and never think a girl is your once in a life time chance to be with a beautiful and exotic woman.
Not all Filipinas are looking to date a foreign man but most are. Most are dying for the chance. When you arrive in the Philippines your opportunity to date beautiful women will be nearly endless. Do not be in a rush. You can find a girl here. You can find a Filipina to give you genuine love but if you move to fast it can go very badly for you.
Flirting in the Philippines is a bit different. If you flirt too soon and or are too sexual in your flirts, your likely to offend the Filipina. The first thing you must do is establish respect. Respect is huge part of Filipino culture. If you fail to do this, you’re likely to strike out. This is even true of the girls working in bikini bars. Though flirting is more acceptable there, you still need to show respect. I don’t think that is a great place to find a long term girlfriend though. In fact, it is a horrible idea.
If you have a particular fondness of a woman, then ask them if they have been to a resort that you like. If you’re in Cebu, I would suggest Bantayan Island. Most of the time they have never been but would jump at a chance to go.
How To Meet Filipinas
Filipino Cupid is a good site to meet many beautiful ladies in the Philippines. I had an account there before I moved to the Philippines in 2008. I don’t need one any more. Many of them will be looking for cash. Married women do this too and she might even be working with her husband. I’ve even known men to pretend to be women. My girl worked in an Internet cafe when we met. She told me she’s seen mother and daughters teams at work. The older woman would tell her daughter what to say and the pretty young Filipina would be the one on cam. Don’t send them money. They may really need it but you can find a good woman once you are here. Even then, move slowly. You need to confirm this girl is not out just to take your cash. Once she has confirmed that by spending some quality time with you, then you can help her out.
Don’t tell her how you can help her either. Stay away from that topic or you may offend her. She already knows. There is no need for you to bring it up.
Most of the girls are looking for a better life and I don’t see anything wrong with that. However, many also prefer foreign men due to our culture. Many don’t like the way pinoy (Filipino men) treat them. On the other hand, some prefer pinoys. I’ve met many that prefer older men and Filipinas are not as obsessed with looks. If you treat a Filipina well and take care of her, it is likely she will truly love you and be the dream girl you are looking for.
The last time I went out alone, two women tried to pick me up within 30 minutes of leaving my home. This happens to me all the time. I’m seriously overweight but I am friendly, I make eye contact and I smile and even say hello. I often take pictures of Filipinas that I encounter and most of them love this but they tend to be a bit shy. One day two girls said “I love you” when I took their pictures. These two girls were extremely hot. Well one of them was the other was not ugly. They did this with my girlfriend sitting right next to me. I got their phone numbers. They both already had foreign boyfriends. What they really loved was for me to take them shopping. haha I didn’t but that is what they wanted. The girl in the picture to the left is one of them.
Filipinas generally will treat their man very good. Don’t be surprised if you feel guilty about how they treat you. They often love to serve their man. My girl even said once “Please let me serve you.” When I said the same thing to her though, she didn’t like that idea at all. Women are raised in the Philippines to take care of their man. Most of them truly enjoy it.
I know lots of men that have found wonderful Filipinas in the Philippines. I know many that are happily married both here in the Philippines and those living in the USA. However, I know just as many that things didn’t go well for. For those where it didn’t go well, they usually moved much to fast. Take your time, treat her exceptionally well and she will reward you. Filipinas are truly amazing women. They are beautiful on the inside and the outside as well.
Do not be afraid to try dating Filipinas. If you take your time, establish respect and friendship you are very likely to be successful in your search. There are many Filipinas waiting for a better life that you can likely offer them.